Early in our marriage, Mike and I were acquainted with a couple where we attended church. We saw them weekly in our young married class and socially with our group several times a year. We had a sense that there were some relationship issues, but the comments they made about one another became more and more pointed and ugly over time. Ultimately they divorced, and by then it was no real surprise. They shared the evidence of their relationship issues with everyone they knew through their uncomplimentary comments about each other. […]