Unhealthy Marriage Patterns: Building Walls in Marriage

2026-10-15T15:30:59-05:00Connection, Emotion|

Marriage was designed by God to be a place of love, safety, intimacy, and connection. But in many marriages, couples slowly fall into unhealthy marriage patterns that create distance instead of closeness. One of the most common patterns is building emotional walls in marriage. These walls are not made of brick and stone. They are made of fear, hurt, disappointment, mistrust, criticism, and emotional self-protection. When one or both spouses begin to build walls, the relationship can start to feel lonely, tense, and disconnected. If your marriage feels this way today, you are not alone. Many couples develop emotional walls when they no longer feel safe, understood, or valued. The [...]

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Is Intimacy more than Sex?

2024-01-08T01:15:05-06:00Intimacy, Sex|

In his book, Soul Cravings, Erwin Raphael, McManus writes: “Sex can be the most intimate and beautiful expression of love, but we are only lying to ourselves when we act as if sex is PROOF OF LOVE.  Too many men demand sex as proof of love; too many women have given sex in hopes of love.  We live in a world of users, where we abuse each other to dull the pain of aloneness.  We all long for intimacy, and physical contact can appear as intimacy, at least for a moment.” “Too many men have demanded sex as proof of love. Too many women have given sex in hopes of [...]

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